- You don’t need a ring to tell everyone you’re in love.
- Marriage is a waste of money, because if it doesn’t work out who’s paying for divorce?
- Saying “I love you” in front of everyone isn’t supposed to cost so much money.
- Making VOWS is like making promises. Promises are made to be broken.
- You shouldn’t be repeating what the priest says about being there for your significant other through sickness and health. You should ALREADY be doing that.
Now you tell me, do you need a ring, and a certificate to someone you really love them?
Last night, I’m pretty damn surprised. He and I had this heart to heart conversation. And none of us got offended. We talked about Love, Life, and Family. You know the conversation I usually have with friends. Including inspirational quotes and things I do, and don’t want to do in the future.
We came across quotes like “The promises that were broken first, will always pull through. But the promise that happenes right after will always be broken later on.” “You can turn friendships into LOVE but you can never turn LOVE into a friendship”. We talked about how money just ruins everything in the world. We talked about how I don’t believe in marriage. And for my reasons he agreed. I mentioned how “Lust is easier to chase, but LOVE is easier to hold on to.”
It came to the point were he admitted to me “I’m so comfortable talking to you about all this to you. It’s fun“ I’m flattered, and surprised that someone I’m into, actually enjoy these talks with me. I mean before, my so called “boyfriend” never wanted to talk about the things that matter in life. They always wanted to talk about the future, with us.
I appreciate him, on the way home, while we were ‘enjoying’ the silence he leaned over and told me “I just want to get my license already. So you’re the one sitting in this seat and I’m over there on that seat, driving.“ Especially what he said when he was about to leave (but eventually we talked all night long in my car)..
Him: Thank you.
Her: For… what?
Him: All the things you do for me, for everything, for driving me around, for being with me.
Her: And what is everything?
Him: Aw, you know what I’m talking about. For watching the sunrise with me, for taking me every where, even if your the one driving. Thank you for introducing me to your friends. You know what, I really like hanging around Kevin and Luis.
Her: And why wouldn’t you want to hang around them :)
Him: I don’t know.. I just think that chilling with them is different. Cause everyone tells me, “You hang around people who’s not even like you, why I you hanging around them, they can be influences”
Her: Why! I hang around a lot of Gays, does that mean I’m supposed to be gay?
Him: Well, babe, you like guys and so it’s a good combination.
Us: …so it mixes in!
I’m surprised that he likes chillin with them, if I were to compare him to *someone, I’d say that, that *someone would never want to chill with them, cause *he’s so damn judgmental. I’m thankful that he’s not as judgmental, and he’d would never try to hurt someone intentionally. If he did, he never meant to. He’d follow everything with ‘I’m sorry’ if he needs to.
Over this weekend we got very close. Infact closer then the whole week last week. After what happened, I opened up to him. Yeah, I seen him everyday of the weekend but I don’t care, I enjoy my time with him.
I am never this comfortable with someone. Before, I would always be quiet and shy around someone I like, even if we knew each other before. But this is VERY different, like what he said - “You’re opening up your mind more”. I guess.
I guess what J. Kim said, “You changed, I heard you more chill now”, I guess before I wasn’t. I was so damn up tight with my feelings, and I guess I let everything at home get at me outside my home. But I did know, I did have a hard time talking to people, I had a hard time trusting everyone especially my closest friends.
I must say this year, I have changed a whole lot. Due to the fact I was hurt in so many different ways. Family, friends and relationships. I grew stronger, to deal with the things that could hurt me the most. I learned to leave everything alone, when I can’t do anything about it anymore. I’m starting to learn not to blame myself (but I can’t help but to do so). I’ve learned that, what ever happened, happened for a reason. I’ve learned that the people you meet, WILL make a difference in your life, definitely. And I thank so many people who’ve been there for me, and also those who’ve hurt me this year. Because without all the pain you’ve caused, and all the bullshit you’ve put me through, I wouldn’t be who I am today. Ha.
Baby, my friends and I… WE NEED TO JAM SESSION LIKE THIS, trust. It would be fun.
Someone posted a YouTube vid of you! Oh Mah Lord!
WHO AND WHERE?!
REAL MOTHAFCKN TALK!
It’s hard to complain about LIFE&LOVE without your boyfriend/girlfriend getting offended. But it’s RARE to talk about LIFE&LOVE with your boyfriend/girlfriend while they sit right besides you and totally agree with you. < 3
legaci doing replay by IYAZ, sick
< 3 it
I just wonder.. If I ever cross your mind as much as you do for me.
“When the afterparty is over
And everyone around us is leaving
Thats when I want you to come closer
Cause your the only one that im needing
So when the afterparty is over
And for no particular reason
I want you to pull me in closer
And tell me that tonight you aint leaving”
Ha, so woke up around 3:30 AM this morning to head down to Lanikai for the morning. Picked up Shandler around 4:15 AM. Got to Lanikai around 5:00 AM. Damn I forgot how long the drive was. Ha. Fell asleep waiting for the time to strike around 6:15 AM so we could head down to the beach. Ha. I could say, I was pretty knocked out. Well yeah, after that. Headed to the beach and this guy was like idk, looking for spare change I guess. Metal detector everything. Ha, as the sun was starting to come up there were choke people on the beach waiting for the rise. I must say the sun was hella huge. Ha. After, decided to head to Kahala mall (which failed because of Google Maps) Haha. Went to Scenic Point at Kaneohe Bay. Then asked for some damn directions.
haha, yeah I’m still sorta new at driving so give me a break! lol. Even if it has been a year >_< But yeah that was my day SO FAR. We’ll see what I’ll do tonight (:
You know where to ask them questions (CLICK) http://formspring.me/InfamousEvol
He deserves a blog. Happy Birthday Mr Balico (:
“This next song is dedicated to the girl next to me.” :) lol.
We were bored and I wanted to make use of his voice, and record it. Don’t mind the mistakes, he didn’t really want to record. But yeah.. Enjoyy (:
So fail shandler!! xD
nahh jkjk ohh tell the DOUCHE happy bday
Haha you’re so mean! Sure I’ll tell him.
“This next song is dedicated to the girl next to me.” :) lol.
We were bored and I wanted to make use of his voice, and record it. Don’t mind the mistakes, he didn’t really want to record. But yeah.. Enjoyy (:
| Her: | You better go. |
| Him: | Mm, you better get some sleep, lets go. |
| Her: | Whaa? No, I'm going home, I'll see you in 5 hours. |
| Him: | Fine, but I wish I could wake up to this.. |
| Her: | In about 5 hours, we'll be on the beach waiting for the sun to rise, we're bound to fall asleep til then. |
| Him: | mmmm... |
| Her: | Then you'll get to wake up to this. |
| Him: | (:D) |
